From being officemates in the same graduate program, to restaurant co-workers, to good friends, to falling in love; Elisa and Joshua's relationship soared after their competitive spirits bet on a game of bowling in Oxford, MS. *Note: our relationship is not only a conjoining of our love, but an amalgamation of the love of the communities that we are apart of. In particular, marginalized communities (such as Indigenous, BIPOC, Queer, Trans, gender-noncomforming, working class, etc.) that inform our responsibilities, values, and our love. We hope that you come to our celebration in Memphis (Chicasaw Land) with our values in mind, and if it is not possible, then we hope you can celebrate our love in a different way or at a different time.